The Not-So-Nice Side To 'Being In Love' And Marriage

Marriage due to love or love leading to marriage, it seems that there is nothing that can go wrong in an affair or communion which is marked by such tremendous celebrations and profound attachment. But is it right to assume that marriage only leads to goody goody ramifications? Could it also be true that partners become involved in marital communion for reasons unbeknownst to their own partners? Or, for some utterly strange reasons that have anything but love as the critical binding force? We revisit the bond of love and marriage through some rather startling revelations that leave us confused and truth be told, shocked

1. Loneliness that led to love?

The quote is a fitting admission of the impact that loneliness has on love, rather on breaking the crust of marriage.

2. Scared to love, and hence taking the road to love?

Insecurities and worries, they are always going to be there. But then, why enter a relationship without feeling anything for it? In cases, such as these, trouble is bound to spruce up in a marriage?

3. The case of accidental love

That love should lead to an offspring is great and that both the partners should equally be desiring the idea of having one is also necessary. But why, for the sake of filling one's self-indulgent idea should a marriage take place. Aren't you, then spoiling it all?

4. Taking 'custody' or 'possession' in love

The quote reveals a rather unbecoming act of a partner in a marriage. To marry is fine, to have kids to is fine. But to marry only for the sake of taking custody of one's child? That sounds like a 100% flop! Simply not done. 

5. Having a low self opinion about oneself !

So are you trying to say that you got married as that perhaps sounded the only best thing that you could think about yourself ?

6. Now, that sounds convincing

Chances are, you won't believe that this is actually true! Maybe the lazy ones out there, and those who see in procrastination - a way of life, will relate the most to this. But even this, boredom and being sick of one's life and hence getting married is committing hara-kiri to one's relation.

7. Coming out of the closet, but still leaving some skeletons behind

No harm in being gay, absolutely none. But why spoil a marriage whilst concealing your belief and sexual orientation. Why ruin someone else's life?

8. Aah, that sounds legit finally!

Brave is he or she who admitted the real reason for getting married or 'finding' love! But unfortunately, equally condemnable is he who confesses to the shallowness that led him to such love! 

9. Love that comes in 'Green color'

So he or she got married, thinking of eloping to that dream destination? All for a Green card? And what did love or marriage take from you? Your entire self and being. Blooper that sticks with you for life. 

10. Unabashedly shameless love?

The person, by virtue of utterly remorseless self-admission agrees that she married to avail medical insurance benefits. Well, how about gratuity and other compensations? Have you been paid those too?

11. Oh that's so thoughtful indeed!

Wondering if the mother knows a thing or two about how amicably and selflessly you respected her friendship with your hubby's mum? By the way, do you love him enough to call aunty a mum-in-law? What a waste of a marriage.

12. A marriage walking tightrope between begrudged mom and daughter

That sounds trully aweful, indeed! Isn't it? So you wanted to prove a point to you mom so desperately, who couldn't stand your guy that you decided to enter a revenge marriage? Funnily, the joke is not on your guy or your mom, its on you! Damn! And just what on earth did you achieve with this?

13. Rubbish - another definition to state people's choices that led them to marry

Marriage for money, but still unhappy despite the moola and the strong buck? Bye-bye peace! The joke is on you, for making a joke out of your marriage.

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