The usual New Year resolutions that we make tend to be self-serving – we resolve to lose weight, find a better job, get into an exercise regimen, and quit bad habits like smoking, etc. Sometimes, it may make sense to make resolutions for others or at least for the community at large. This is not just for the common good; it will also ultimately better your own life.
There are some Independence Day Resolutions that I think we could all make to create a better, cohesive and less divided India – not littering, using public transport, teaching someone, making a friend from another community or region, celebrating the festivals of others, reading the constitution of India etc. These resolutions make a better India and make us better Indians.
Is your neighbourhood littered? Is your city polluted and congested? Consider the fact that this is at least partly your responsibility. Don’t blame the government, your neighbour or others only. Even if you don’t personally litter, did you try to educate someone else not to do so? Did you complain or try to get the authorities to clean up? Do you use public transport to cut down on the number of vehicles on the road? These are few questions you must answer through the way of your own actions.
Many of our problems come from our perception of being a victim. Refuse to be one. Acknowledge ways in which each one of us is privileged instead. If one is able to recognise the extent to which so many others are disadvantaged or discriminated against; one is able to honestly let go of the sense of victimhood.
There may be much that you don’t have; but there may be much that you do! You may not make a lot of money but may have a loving family. You may not have a big car but you could enjoy good health. You may be blessed with close friends you can count on, a hobby that you cherish.
Let us admit it – we in India, tend to take our household help rather for granted. But remember as more people become educated, social mobility and economic progress will ensure that the poor are no longer content to work in menial jobs for a paltry pay, no benefits, holidays or job security. Isn’t it better to do more of our own work, rely less on others, and take pride in whatever it is that we do, while valuing dignity of labour in the process?
Don’t tolerate injustice by the powerful in society. Whether it is injustice in the society, at work or in the family, speak out against it. Standing up to authority is difficult; but when you do it, other voiceless people find courage; they benefit too.
Each of us can contribute to making the lives of others better. If we don’t have much money, we can contribute a bit of time or effort. Every bit helps. It creates awareness and helps add to the sum of good in the world.
While being empathetic to others, it is important to find time to do the things that you enjoy; which mean something to you. Ultimately self-love is important in order to truly love others. If you're healthy and happy, you're better able to contribute to a happy, healthy society.
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