Chivalry is dead! Gentlemen are a dying breed. In the middle of all the coolness, and all the hotness the basic curl your toes gentleman is lost. But in case you think you’ve found one of the few left of this dying breed, here is how you can cross check.
The little things he does for you
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You’ll never fall short of nice things that he does for you. From flowers to just telling you that you look beautiful, his actions to make you feel special will never cease.
He is not afraid to wear his heart on his sleeve
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He doesn’t shy away from commitment and isn’t scared to tell you how he feels about you and tells you how much he really loves you.
He listens to you
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Whenever you have something important to say, he’s all ears. He responds with his opinion about the matter as well.
When he says something, he means it
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He is not one to make false promises or boast. If he says something, he means it and if he makes a promise, he definitely keeps it.
He’s good to your friends and family
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How he behaves with your close ones will tell you a lot about him. A gentleman will treat your family and friends with respect and kindness. You’ll know when they accept him with open arms.
He has good manners and etiquette
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He pulls out his chair for you, doesn’t arrive late for dates, makes you walk on the sidewalk, not because you cannot take care of yourself, but simply because he likes doing nice things for you and he was just raised that way.
He takes out time for you
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No matter how busy he might be, he’ll always be there for you in a crisis or just generally. He’ll take out time for you, even it’s just a text message and will make sure to spend quality time with you.
He completely trusts you (and is trustworthy as well)
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He doesn’t get insecure at the slightest of things and always takes your word. Along with that, he is an honest person who is completely worthy of your trust.
He is proud of your achievements
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He isn’t the least bit intimidated by your success and achievements. In fact, he believes in you and pushes you to achieve greater heights.
Most of all, he knows how to put a smile on your face and keep you happy
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At the end of the day, you know you can count on him to make you smile. With a joke, or just his general goodness, he’ll always keep you happy and you can be sure he’ll be there to check in if you have a rough day.
If your boyfriend displays all the qualities that are mentioned here, then, he is a gentleman of the highest order.
Lucky girl!
Author: Vandana Lohia
